{"id":98,"date":"2010-02-06T19:15:26","date_gmt":"2010-02-06T19:15:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gasamtokin.is\/blog\/?page_id=98"},"modified":"2020-03-07T13:07:28","modified_gmt":"2020-03-07T13:07:28","slug":"a%c3%b0standendur","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.gasamtokin.is\/?page_id=98","title":{"rendered":"A\u00f0standendur"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00dea\u00f0 er enginn Gam-Anon fundur \u00e1 \u00cdslandi.<\/strong><\/h4>\n

A\u00f0standendur spilaf\u00edkla eru velkomnir \u00e1 f\u00f6studagsfund GA samtakanna. F\u00f6studagsfundurinn er opinn fundur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gam – Anon eru sj\u00e1lfb\u00e6r samt\u00f6k eiginkvenna, eiginmanna, \u00e6ttingja og n\u00e1inna vina spilaf\u00edkla. Gam – Anon samt\u00f6kin eru ekki \u00ed skipulagstengslum vi\u00f0 Gamblers Anonymous en \u00feessi samt\u00f6k vinna n\u00e1i\u00f0 saman a\u00f0 sameiginlegum markmi\u00f0um.
\nGam – Anon samt\u00f6kin ur\u00f0u til \u00ed New York \u00e1ri\u00f0 1960 \u00feegar fj\u00f3rar eiginkonur spilaf\u00edkla komu saman til a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a sameiginlegt vandam\u00e1l sitt. Fulltr\u00faa fr\u00e1 Al – Anon samt\u00f6kunum var bo\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00e1 fundinn til a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a hvernig s\u00e1 h\u00f3pur tekur \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00faa me\u00f0 alkah\u00f3lista og ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0an var a\u00f0 s\u00f6mu meginreglum m\u00e6tti beita vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 b\u00faa me\u00f0 spilaf\u00edkli. \u00c1ri\u00f0 1961 voru margir Gam – Anon h\u00f3par stofna\u00f0ir \u00ed Lor Angeles og s\u00ed\u00f0an hafa samt\u00f6kin vaxi\u00f0 st\u00f6\u00f0ugt um allan heim.<\/p>\n

Meirihluti Gam – Anon f\u00e9laga eru eiginkonur spilaf\u00edkla \u00fev\u00ed flestir f\u00e9lagar \u00ed GA – samt\u00f6kunum eru karlmenn. Algengt er a\u00f0 Gam – Anon fundir s\u00e9u haldnir samt\u00edmis GA – fundum, \u00ed sama h\u00fasi en annarri stofu. Eina skilir\u00f0i\u00f0 til a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a f\u00e9lagi \u00ed Gam – Anon er a\u00f0 eiga maka, \u00e6ttingja e\u00f0a vin sem er spilaf\u00edkill e\u00f0a hafa \u00e1 annan h\u00e1tt or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir bar\u00f0inu \u00e1 spilaf\u00edkninni.<\/p>\n

Margir ganga \u00ed Gam – Anon \u00fe\u00f3tt spilaf\u00edkilinn sem \u00feeir \u00feekkja s\u00e9 ekki \u00ed GA – samt\u00f6kunum. \u00deeir sem ganga \u00ed Gam – Anon gera \u00fea\u00f0 vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00feeir gera s\u00e9r grein fyrir a\u00f0 \u00feeir \u00feurfa l\u00edka hj\u00e1lp. \u00deegar makin \u00e6ttingin e\u00f0a vinurinn fer a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1 spilaf\u00edkninni og s\u00e6kja Gam – Anon fundi kann \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 lei\u00f0a til \u00feess a\u00f0 spilaf\u00edkilinn fari a\u00f0 s\u00e6kja GA – fundi. Gam – Anon f\u00e9l\u00f6gum er \u00fe\u00f3 bent \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed s\u00e9 ekki a\u00f0 treysta og a\u00f0 tilgangurinn me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 s\u00e6kja Gam – Anon fundi s\u00e9 a\u00f0 \u00feeir sj\u00e1lfir finni n\u00fdja lei\u00f0 til a\u00f0 lifa l\u00edfinu.<\/p>\n

\u00c1hrif spilaf\u00edknar \u00e1 fj\u00f6lskyldu<\/h3>\n

Einstaklingar sem eiga vi\u00f0 spilavanda a\u00f0 str\u00ed\u00f0a hafa almennt s\u00f6mu markmi\u00f0 \u00ed l\u00edfinu og a\u00f0rir, \u00fe.e. a\u00f0 lifa e\u00f0lilegu l\u00edfi, hafa g\u00f3\u00f0a og gefandi vinnu, fj\u00f6lskyldu sem elskar \u00fe\u00e1, og a\u00f0 vera virtur sem einstaklingur.
\n\u00deetta eru h\u00f3gv\u00e6r markmi\u00f0 en geta samt veri\u00f0 erfi\u00f0 fyrir einstaklinga me\u00f0 \u00feennan vanda. Einstaklingar sem misst hafa stj\u00f3rn \u00e1 spilamennsku sinni og skammast s\u00edn fyrir vandam\u00e1l sitt fela \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed flestum tilfellum fyrir \u00e1stvinum s\u00ednum. \u00der\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 a\u00f0standendur gruni a\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki \u00ed lagi, \u00fe\u00e1 geta stundum li\u00f0i\u00f0 m\u00f6rg \u00e1r \u00e1\u00f0ur en raunverulega vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 kemur fram. Oft \u00e1 t\u00ed\u00f0um eru samskiptin \u00fe\u00e1 or\u00f0in stir\u00f0 og traust takmarka\u00f0. Vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 er or\u00f0i\u00f0 svo st\u00f3rt og yfirgripsmiki\u00f0 a\u00f0 erfitt getur veri\u00f0 fyrir einstaklinginn og fj\u00f6lskylduna a\u00f0 vinna saman a\u00f0 lausninni. A\u00f0standendur ver\u00f0a rei\u00f0ir yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e1stvinur \u00feeirra br\u00e1st trausti \u00feeirra og \u00fea\u00f0 getur veri\u00f0 erfitt fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 vinna a\u00f0 lausn vandam\u00e1ls sem er b\u00fai\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera lengi a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00f3ast sem \u00feau vissu ekkert um. A\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed leytinu eru einstaklingar me\u00f0 spilavanda og a\u00f0standendur \u00feeirra \u00ed mismunandi st\u00f6\u00f0u hva\u00f0 vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 var\u00f0ar.
\nEinstaklingarnir hafa vita\u00f0 af \u00feessu \u00ed langan t\u00edma, en fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0limir \u00feurfa t\u00edma til a\u00f0 meta \u00e1standi\u00f0.
\nA\u00f0standendur \u00feurfa oft a\u00f0 horfast \u00ed augu vi\u00f0 har\u00f0an raunveruleika; \u00e1stvinur hefur broti\u00f0 og misnota\u00f0 traust \u00feeirra fj\u00e1rhagslega og \u00feau vita ekki um \u00feann fj\u00e1rhagslega vanda sem \u00feau eru jafnvel komin \u00ed.
\nFj\u00e1rhagsleg vandr\u00e6\u00f0i er oft erfi\u00f0ur \u00e1 \u00feeim t\u00edma sem raunveruleg aflei\u00f0ing spilavandans kemur fram. A\u00f0standendur \u00feurfa a\u00f0 horfast \u00ed augu vi\u00f0 eignartap og jafnvel gjald\u00ferot. Oft \u00e1 t\u00ed\u00f0um hafa einstaklingar opna\u00f0 reikninga \u00ed m\u00f6rgum b\u00f6nkum og hafa fengi\u00f0 yfirdr\u00e1ttarheimildir og kreditkort, selt hlutabr\u00e9f og a\u00f0rar eignir, ve\u00f0sett h\u00fasn\u00e6\u00f0i, og fengi\u00f0 l\u00e1n hj\u00e1 vinnuveitendum og jafnvel \u00e6ttingjum \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 makinn vissi af \u00fev\u00ed.
\n\u00dea\u00f0 er mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 a\u00f0standendur f\u00e1i stu\u00f0ning \u00e1 me\u00f0an veri\u00f0 er a\u00f0 vinna \u00far m\u00e1lunum. Mikilv\u00e6gt er a\u00f0 fj\u00f6lskyldan vinni saman \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 koma jafnv\u00e6gi \u00e1 heimilisl\u00edfi\u00f0 og b\u00ed\u00f0i ekki me\u00f0 a\u00f0 taka \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir um stefnu fj\u00f6lskyldunnar. Barnaf\u00f3lk \u00fearf oft s\u00e9rstaka a\u00f0sto\u00f0 \u00fear sem erfileikarnir koma oft fram \u00ed heg\u00f0unarvandam\u00e1lum hj\u00e1 b\u00f6rnum sem veldur auknu \u00e1lagi.<\/p>\n

Stj\u00f3rnlaus spilamennska hefur margskonar \u00e1hrif \u00e1 fj\u00f6lskylduna:<\/strong>
\nFj\u00e1rhagslegir erfi\u00f0leikar<\/strong>:<\/em>
\n\u00deegar a\u00f0standendur komast a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fj\u00e1rhagslegt \u00f6ryggi \u00feeirra er ekki lengur til sta\u00f0ar finna \u00feeir fyrir mikilli rei\u00f0i, hr\u00e6\u00f0slu og l\u00ed\u00f0a eins og \u00feau hafi veri\u00f0 svikin. Auki\u00f0 \u00e1lag vegna fj\u00e1rhagslegra vandam\u00e1la gerir samskipti fj\u00f6lskyldunnar erfi\u00f0.<\/p>\n

F\u00e9lagsleg einangrun og andleg vanl\u00ed\u00f0an:<\/em><\/strong>
\nVegna \u00feess a\u00f0 vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 er oft langt komi\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 loks kemur fram \u00ed dagslj\u00f3si\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur \u00fea\u00f0 oft til \u00feess a\u00f0 a\u00f0standendur einangrast. \u00c1stvinir vilja ekki vera n\u00e1l\u00e6gt \u00feeim sem hafa s\u00e6rt \u00fe\u00e1 og logi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feeim og \u00feeir skammast s\u00edn fyrir a\u00f0 hafa treyst og tr\u00faa\u00f0 einstaklingnum.
\n\u00deannig einangrast fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0limir. En fj\u00f6lskyldan sem heild einangrast l\u00edka \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feeir vilja ekki a\u00f0 a\u00f0rir viti af vandam\u00e1linu.<\/p>\n

Andleg og l\u00edkamleg vandl\u00ed\u00f0an:<\/em><\/strong>
\n\u00c1lag vegna stj\u00f3rnlausrar spilamennsku veldur alltaf andlegri og l\u00edkamlegri vanl\u00ed\u00f0an. Fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0limir finna fyrir auknu daglegu stressi, \u00feunglyndi, svefnleysi, breytingu \u00e1 matarlyst, magavandam\u00e1lum og vandam\u00e1lum tengdum v\u00f6\u00f0vab\u00f3lgu og h\u00f6fu\u00f0verkjum.<\/p>\n

\u00derotleysi:<\/strong><\/em>
\nA\u00f0standendum l\u00ed\u00f0ur eins og heimur \u00feeirra s\u00e9 stj\u00f3rnlaus. Oft gefast \u00feeir upp og uppgj\u00f6fin berst yfir \u00ed n\u00e1nasta umhverfi \u00feeirra og kemur ni\u00f0ur \u00e1 vinnu og samskiptum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0ra. \u00deeir h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 hugsa um sj\u00e1lfa sig og ver\u00f0a eir\u00f0arlausir.<\/p>\n

\u00c1hrif \u00e1 b\u00f6rn:<\/strong><\/em>
\n\u00deegar foreldrar eru uppteknir a\u00f0 andlegum og fj\u00e1rhagslegum vandam\u00e1lum \u00fe\u00e1 getur \u00fea\u00f0 haft neikv\u00e6\u00f0 \u00e1hrif \u00e1 b\u00f6rn. Oft finna b\u00f6rn lei\u00f0ir til a\u00f0 fanga athygli foreldra sinna, og oftast tekst \u00fea\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gera eitthva\u00f0 sem foreldrarnir vilja ekki.
\n\u00deetta b\u00e6tir \u00e1 togstreituna innan fj\u00f6lskyldunnar. B\u00f6rn einangrast, \u00feeim l\u00ed\u00f0ur eins og \u00feau ver\u00f0i a\u00f0 vera hli\u00f0holl \u00f6\u00f0ru foreldrinu og \u00feau taka \u00e1 sig \u00e1byrg\u00f0 sem \u00feau eru ekki tilb\u00fain a\u00f0 taka.
\nOft ver\u00f0a b\u00f6rn andlegir stu\u00f0ningsmenn foreldis og \u00fea\u00f0 getur b\u00e6\u00f0i s\u00e6rt samband \u00feeirra vi\u00f0 foreldra og haft langvarandi og neikv\u00e6\u00f0 \u00e1hrif \u00e1 hvernig \u00feau mynda samb\u00f6nd vi\u00f0 einstaklinga \u00ed framt\u00ed\u00f0inni.<\/p>\n

Andlegt og l\u00edkamlegt ofbeldi:<\/strong><\/em>
\nOfbeldi er l\u00edklegra hj\u00e1 fj\u00f6lskyldum sem eru undir langt\u00edma \u00e1lagi eins og spilavandam\u00e1li.<\/p>\n

Sj\u00e1lfsv\u00edg:<\/strong><\/em>
\nSj\u00e1lfsv\u00edgst\u00ed\u00f0ni er h\u00e6rri hj\u00e1 einstaklingum me\u00f0 spilavandam\u00e1l og fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0limum \u00feeirra. \u00deeir sem eru l\u00edklegastir til a\u00f0 fremja sj\u00e1lfsv\u00edg eru einstaklingar sem hafa \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 spilavandam\u00e1l a\u00f0 str\u00ed\u00f0a \u00ed langan t\u00edma, eru \u00feunglyndir og nota \u00e1fengi e\u00f0a eiturlyf.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00dea\u00f0 er enginn Gam-Anon fundur \u00e1 \u00cdslandi. A\u00f0standendur spilaf\u00edkla eru velkomnir \u00e1 f\u00f6studagsfund GA samtakanna. F\u00f6studagsfundurinn er opinn fundur. Gam – Anon eru sj\u00e1lfb\u00e6r samt\u00f6k eiginkvenna, eiginmanna, \u00e6ttingja og n\u00e1inna vina spilaf\u00edkla. Gam – Anon samt\u00f6kin eru ekki \u00ed skipulagstengslum vi\u00f0 Gamblers Anonymous en \u00feessi samt\u00f6k vinna n\u00e1i\u00f0 saman a\u00f0 sameiginlegum markmi\u00f0um. Gam – Anon […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-98","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gasamtokin.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/98","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gasamtokin.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gasamtokin.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gasamtokin.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gasamtokin.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=98"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/www.gasamtokin.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/98\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2600,"href":"https:\/\/www.gasamtokin.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/98\/revisions\/2600"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gasamtokin.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=98"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}